My 40th high school reunion....

I went to my 40th high school reunion last weekend. An interesting event.
I graduated from Bishop Duffy High School, a Catholic secondary school, now called Niagara Catholic, in Niagara Falls, New York (check out the live Falls webcam).
Billy Gallagher, one our classmates who works for Fox News in Detroit (listed as one of Detroit's best TV street reporter here), published a piece in the Niagara Reporter ("The Falls Only Locally Owned Newspaper") about our graduating class of '65. He wrote boldly that our class is "widely regarded as the greatest class in the distinguished history of Bishop Duffy High School." This statement was, of course, followed by several rebuttals in letters to the editor in a subsequent edition of the Niagara Reporter asserting that other graduating classes contained many high achievers but "Maybe what we lacked were journalists who are employed by a local newspaper." Ah, well, sour grapes, eh? You guys get yer own newspaper!
At any rate, the reunion event of our all-boys' school was held in conjunction with the reunion of the all-girls' school that existed right next to our school. A joint reunion was held to increase the size of the attendance, I am sure. Also, many of the graduates of the all-girls' school are married to graduates of our school. Efficiency. and peace at home for many who do not want their spouses going to a party without them that features the spouses' old flames and alcohol.
No one should worry, though. We certainly did not see much of the girls years ago. The girls started school at 7:30 am, while we started after 8:00 am (perhaps administrators believed that girls could get up earlier than boys). And, they finished school earlier, too (perhaps administrators believed that girls had to get home to help mom with supper).
The schools were in such a part of town distant from most students' homes that busses took most of us to and from both schools. Separate busses. No mingling. Our good priests and nuns knew that there were differences between the sexes, but they just didn't want us to find out before we were 25 years old.
Boys wore suit coats and ties to school. Always. If you forgot your suit coat on any day, there were about five zoot suits in the closet from which you could choose to make your daily fashion statement. And, a full drawer of 1930s wide ties awaited those who neglected to wrap a necktie around their necks. Oh, man, you would never want that. At least we all learned to tie a necktie, except those who wore clip-on ties for four years (much frowned on as not macho). A frequent Mishna and Gemera argument ensued about whether a string tie was really a tie (never completely resolved). On may days I wore a sweater under my suit coat which had such a high collar that no one could tell that I had committed revolution by not donning a tie. Such were the sweet, simple transgressions that we made.
Girls in the school adjoining ours wore blue uniforms with white blouses. The girls were forbidden from wearing anything but black and white saddle shoes. No patent leather shoes allowed because such shoes reflected up-skirt views. It is hard to imagine, but never, never underestimate the keen eyesight of a teenage boy.
It was in the gymnasium of our high school that boys and girls made their first awkward attempts at romance....well, if not romance, then
social meeting. Boys, in suits and ties,would ask girls, in dresses, to dance, mostly slowly. Dance? Rocking to and fro. Most of the time girls said "yes" to dance; other times, the dreaded "no" was heard. All very painful. Then, there was a "Ladies Choice" dance, in which girls could ask boys to dance. Tables turned. At the very end of the night (11:00 pm), the DJ would play:
I'll be seeing you
In all the old familiar places
That this heart of mine embraces
All day and through
...
I'll be seeing you
In every lovely summer's day
In everything that's light and gay
I'll always think of you that way
...
I'll find in the morning sun
And when the night is new
I'll be looking at the moon
But I'll be seeing you
And, my gosh, we did. Again. Last weekend. It was true.